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  • Entire place
  • 10 guests
  • 4 bedrooms
  • 3 bathrooms
  • 6 beds
  • This is an Instant Booking. The host agreed to automatically accept booking requests. Once your payment is processed, your booking is confirmed.
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  • Wi-Fi
  • Pool
  • Hot tub
  • Parking

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About the Place

Welcome to our La Mesa home, where luxury and relaxation blend with the beauty of nature. Prepare to be captivated by our backyard oasis, boasting a sparkling saltwater pool, soothing waterfall, and relaxing hot tub. The property also offers a putting green, yard games (ladder ball and cornhole), and a variety of sunny or shaded outdoor seating options. With the heated pool and sizzling hot tub, lawn games, 65" television, the house presents a playground for kids of ALL ages!
The heart of our home is the open concept living room and kitchen area, designed to provide seamless entertainment and relaxation. Our house was intentionally designed to cater to large families and groups. Every detail has been thought through ranging from the new tankless water heater to the coffee station set up with two side-by side coffee makers. Enjoy the 65” wide-screen Smart TV with YouTube TV (100+channels) or gather around the sizable kitchen island for cooking and conversation. The spacious 6-person dining table, surrounded by windows, sets the stage for memorable meals with loved ones. With a cozy fireplace and an additional workspace in the living room, you'll find the perfect balance between comfort and productivity. Double doors lead you straight onto the second-floor patio, where plenty of outdoor seating awaits with views of the pool and backyard below.

Bed/Bath Set Up: Up to 12 Guests

Bedroom #1 (2 Guests): Primary bedroom with California king bed, 2 walk-in closets, vaulted ceilings, 42” Smart TV, and two comfortable accent chairs. The primary ensuite bathroom boasts dual vanity sinks, a generous soaking bathtub, a shower with a steam setting, dual shower heads and a built-in shower bench. The primary bedroom also has a baby changing table discreetly tucked into a side corner. (First Level)

Bedroom #2 (2 Guests): Queen bed, Smart TV, built-in closet system, and an attached full bathroom with skylight. Bedroom #2 overlooks the pool and backyard. (Second Level)

Bedroom #3 (3 Guests): Queen and twin beds, full dresser, and built-in closet system. A full, detached bathroom is adjacent to Bedroom 3. (Second Level)

Bedroom #4 (2 Guests): Twin bunk beds, with two small built-in workspaces, a full dresser, and a built-in closet system. (Second Level)

Office Space/Bedroom #5 (1 Guest): A spacious L-shaped desk with a large 23.5” monitor to plug into your laptop and a full library wall. The office accent chair folds down into a twin sized sleeper with bedding and pillows provided. (First Level)

Living Room #2 (2 Guests): Queen sized sleeper sofa with bedding and pillows provided. A cabinet adjacent to Living Room #2 contains a variety of board games for kids of all ages, including Scattergories, Cards Against Humanity, Taboo, Battleship, Jenga and standard playing cards. (Second Level)

Laundry Room: New washer and dryer and essential supplies (e.g., detergent and dryer sheets) provided. (First Level)

Gym/Recreation Room: Unfinished space adjacent to the pool, with foosball table, mini-fridge, 50” Smart TV, treadmill, and weight bench with dumbbell weights.

Front Yard: Golf putting green, 4-person patio table with umbrella, and conversation seating (2 sets) and benches (2).
To ensure your convenience and security, our home is equipped with a smart system and a front door accessed by a code and smart lock. The code and all relevant details for your arrival will be provided through the booking platform on the morning of check-in. There is a two car garage as well as plenty of free street parking throughout the neighborhood.
Centrally located in the rolling hills of San Diego County, La Mesa is known as the Jewel of the Hills. A near perfect climate, tree-lined streets, walkable neighborhoods, easy access to retail and commercial areas, and a quaint downtown village make La Mesa a highly desirable community in which to live and work.

Below are a couple of our favorite local La Mesa restaurants, and we'll be sure to provide you with our favorite places around San Diego as well!

The Hills Local Pub - Indulge in delicious pub fare and craft beers in a relaxed atmosphere. Located at 8758 La Mesa Blvd, La Mesa.

Casa Gabriela - Chef Gabriela Lopez uses her grandmother's recipes from Guadalajara crossed with her cosmopolitan upbringing in Tijuana to serve authentic hand-crafted dishes in a charming garden setting. Located at 8384 La Mesa Blvd, La Mesa.

Farmer's Table - Enjoy farm-to-fork cuisine with a focus on locally sourced ingredients. Located at 8141 La Mesa Blvd, La Mesa.

Brigantine Seafood & Oyster Bar - Savor fresh seafood dishes and a variety of oysters in a cozy coastal-inspired setting. Located at 9350 Fuerte Dr, La Mesa.

Terra American Bistro - Delight in seasonal American cuisine with a creative twist in an inviting and intimate atmosphere. Located at 7091 El Cajon Blvd, San Diego.

Harney Sushi in Old Town - Enjoy a menu dedicated solely to vegetarian sushi rolls! Located at 3964 Harney St., San Diego, CA, 92110

Eddie V's La Jolla - Elegant fine-dining chain with a seafood & steak menu, plus a cocktail lounge featuring live jazz. Located at 1270 Prospect St, La Jolla, CA 92037

• Starbucks and Grocery Stores - Vons & Sprouts (1 mile - 5 min)
• San Diego Zoo and Balboa Park (8.4 miles)
• Downtown San Diego - Gaslamp Quarter (11 miles)
• San Diego International Airport (15 miles)
• SeaWorld San Diego (15 miles)
• Coronado Island (16 miles)
• Pacific Beach (17 miles)
• La Jolla (20 miles)
• San Diego Zoo Safari Park ( 33 miles)
• Legoland California (37 miles)
• Disneyland (99 miles)
The home comes with a garage, that can fit two cars depending on the size. There are also two parking spaces in the driveway and you're also welcome to park on the street in front of the home. It takes about 15 - 20 minutes to get anywhere in San Diego from the home by car. Alternative transportation options are Lyft, Uber or the San Diego Metropolitan Transit System.

POINTS OF INTEREST:

• Starbucks and Grocery Stores - Vons & Sprouts (1 mile - 5 min)
• San Diego Zoo and Balboa Park(8.4 miles)
• Downtown San Diego - Gaslamp Quarter (11 miles)
• San Diego International Airport (15 miles)
• SeaWorld San Diego (15 miles)
• Coronado Island (16 miles)
• Pacific Beach (17 miles)
• La Jolla (20 miles)
• San Diego Zoo Safari Park (33 miles)
• Legoland California (37 miles)
• Disneyland (99 miles)

Please note that these estimated travel times and distances are provided as a reference and may vary depending on traffic conditions and other factors.
While our first priority is ensuring our valued guests enjoy their stay, we have an equally important commitment to the safety and comfort of our community. Kindly review all the house rules and information listed below prior to confirming your reservation.

For stays longer than 30 days, please only submit an inquiry and contact us before booking.

Sound amplification devices, such as speakers, are never allowed at the home, except the one Bluetooth speaker that is provided. Quiet hours (9pm-8am) are strictly enforced. The pool and jacuzzi are off limits during quiet hours and any violation of these rules will result in immediate termination of your reservation mid-stay without refund.

Unfortunately the front of home basketball hoop featured in some photos is no longer available.

SALTWATER POOL AND HOT TUB
The use and heating of the hot tub is always included in the price of your stay. If you desire the pool to be heated, please notify us at least 48 hours in advance, as it may take this amount of time to heat the pool to 80-85 degrees (particularly in the cooler months). There is a fee per day for pool heating and it is required for the entire duration of your stay. It's $125/day to heat the pool from September through May and $50/day from June - August. Please note the pool can only be heated up to 85 degrees. The pool and jacuzzi are not available for guest use during quiet hours (9pm-8am).

GUESTS
For security purposes, guests who wish to make a reservation must have a completed profile on the booking platform, including a clear photograph of your face (so we know the person booking is in fact the person checking in) and have your ID verified.
You must be at least 25 years old to reserve our property.
Check-in is 4PM or later. Check-in instructions will be sent via email the morning of your stay.
No illegal activity or illicit substances are permitted on the premises: Doing either will result in eviction from the property and may also result in law enforcement involvement, and you will not be refunded the rest of your stay.

PETS
While we love pets, unfortunately, we do not allow them at the property out of respect for future guests allergies.

DAMAGE
We understand accidents happen. In the event of damage occurring to the property, we require that all guests report any and all damage during their stay, prior to check-out.

SMOKING
Our property is 100% smoke free, in both private and communal areas, including the home itself, and any other areas within the home and the communal property, regardless of whether inside or out. You must be totally off the premises and on public property to smoke. If you're a regular smoker and feel you'll have a hard time following this rule, we kindly suggest you look into another property. Evidence of smoking will result in a complete forfeiture of your security deposit.

EVENTS & PARTIES
While our first priority is ensuring our valued guests enjoy their stay, we have an equally important commitment to the safety and comfort of our neighbors and community. QUIET HOURS are daily from 9 PM-8AM. We have a zero-tolerance policy for noise complaints and parties of any sort. Please respect our neighbors and keep noise to a minimum. Please read the property rules prior to confirming your reservation. If you’re uncomfortable with these rules, we encourage you to please make alternate accommodations.

SECURITY
This property may implement video surveillance in outdoor public areas to ensure the safety and security of all guests. Additionally, this property may also use Noise Aware technology to ensure the comfort and security of our guests.

VISITORS
We ask that all guests let us know in advance if they plan on having any visitors during their stay. You may not have additional guests unless previously authorized by the host.

FILMING & PHOTO SHOOTS
If you or your company are interested in utilizing the space for film, television, music video or photo/film shoots of any kind, please contact us via the message portion of the site to discuss details, approvals, pricing, etc.

LIABILITY RELEASE
Guest agrees to hold the Host harmless against any and all loss, claims, causes of action, demands and/or costs and expenses that may be incurred by the guests in relation to the home rental. We cannot be responsible for lost or stolen items. Subletting our property is strictly prohibited.

TRAVEL INSURANCE
We highly recommend our guests purchase travel insurance to protect them against any issues that would cause a guest to have to cancel their trip. InsureMyTrip offers plans from 21 different carriers, have an easy-to-follow website that allows you to compare and contrast each policy or e-mail details to yourself, and offer a wide range from standard policies to 5 star coverage. If you do a quick online search it should pop up.

Amenities

  • Wi-Fi
  • Pool
  • Hot tub
  • Parking
  • Air conditioning
  • Kitchen
  • Heating
  • Dishwasher
  • Dryer
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The place is located in La Mesa, CA, United States
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About the Host

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Property Rules

Check-in:
from 4pm
Checkout:
to 11am

Conditions

Extra per guest:
$15 per night after 8 guest(s)
Minimum stay:
2 nights
Cleaning fees:   $425 USD

Cancellation Policy

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